AYSF Christ-Centered Care
At And Yet She Flourished (AYSF), we refer to your struggles and challenges as your “yets.” Up to this point, they have likely felt overwhelming. You may be weary and afraid to get your hopes up. Can anyone really help?
We hear you and we are not going to let you stay stuck.
At AYSF, we provide one-on-one, faith-based support and training that will equip you to navigate whatever challenges you face. We specialize in helping you overcome your “yets” so you can flourish beyond what you have dared to hope for or imagine.
“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined
what God has prepared for those who love him.”
1 Corinthians 2:9
We Specialize in Helping You Effectively Navigate:
Challenging Relationships with:
- Parents
- Children (minors or adults)
- Spouse or significant other
- Business partners, teammates, or coworkers·
- Friends, extended family, and more…
Distressing Emotions & Responses, including:
- Anger, Anxiety, Grief
- Shame, Disappointment
- Coping Behaviors that Do More Harm than Good
Body-Related Struggles, including:
- Disliking how you look or feel in your body
- Difficulty caring for your body in ways that promote your flourishing, in terms of eating habits, exercise, sexuality, and more.
Painful Past Experiences
(in childhood or adulthood) such as:
- Emotional, physical, or sexual abuse or violation of any kind
- Rejection, betrayal, discrimination, or other harm
Struggling in Your Relationship with God, such as:
- You have questions about God that you’ve been afraid to admit or ask for fear of being judged or of receiving unsatisfying answers
- God feels distant or your heart feels cold. Perhaps your “quiet time” has been dry or non-existent or perhaps you’ve stopped attending church
Whatever your ‘yets’
At AYSF, we are ready to help so that:
- No matter what you have been through
- No matter what you have -or haven’t- done
“…and yet she flourished”
is where your story goes from here.
What Makes AYSF Christ-Centered Care Uniquely Effective?
AT AYSF, we offer a non-clinical alternative to therapy for women who are tired of ineffective, unbiblical approaches to care. Drawing from the Word of God and guided by the Holy Spirit, we will uncover the narratives that have taken root in your heart that are out of alignment with God’s beautiful truth. We will get to the bottom of how those false narratives were introduced through the things you have experienced, how those narratives have been reinforced since, and how they have been adversely impacting your quality of life to this day. We will help you engage with God in such a way that you can experience his healing balm right where you need it in your heart and life.
With AYSF’s help, you will also learn how to take courageous responsibility for whatever God has actually called you to, and STOP running yourself into the ground trying to control what is not yours to control. We will help you discover the riches that are available to you as one who belongs to Jesus and teach you how to harness the power of the Word and the Spirit so you are able to prevail no matter what you have experienced, or what you encounter in the future.
AYSF is for women who are ready to do battle
with WHATEVER is holding them back.
Let’s Do This!
Let’s Address Your Questions:
AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions are conducted live, online. Sessions are one hour each. We offer both daytime and evening options, availability permitting.
We will begin by meeting once a week. Once notable progress has been made on the issues that led you to seek support, we will reduce the cadence of our meeting to biweekly. Once you are able to say “I am flourishing,” we reduce our cadence to once a month.
When you’re ready, we can meet on an “as needed” basis. Essentially, this means the door is always open. You can simply reach out if there is a new challenge you are facing, a decision you would like to talk through, etc. At this point, you are welcome to schedule à la carte sessions without needing to commit to a long-term process again. Having this kind of “lifetime” access to support is one of the many distinctives that makes AYSF truly special.
AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions are currently available for women only. However, we warmly welcome men in our Training in Christ-Centered Care and teenage girls in our AYSF Teaching!
In addition to our one-on-one care sessions,
we offer relationship sessions for:
- mothers and adult daughters
- sisters or other female family members
- female friends or business partners
Great question! Christians who make a point to pursue Christian counseling are quite often surprised to discover little or nothing distinctly Christian about their counseling experience. That is because while the counselor or therapist identifies as a Christian, what they have trained in and are practicing is secular psychology. They may have little or no theological training. They may or may not reference Scripture or even reference God at all.
What Christians who want their faith to be central to their counseling experience are actually seeking is “biblical counseling.” Biblical counseling is a decidedly different modality of care. Unfortunately, many Christians are unfamiliar with the term, or if we have heard it, we imagine it is synonymous with “Christian counseling.” To learn more about biblical counseling, click here.
AYSF Founder, Susan Kusmin, is seminary-trained in biblical counseling and has served on staff as a biblical counselor with such reputable organizations as Redeemer Counseling Services (RCS) and The Salvation Army’s Adult Rehabilitation Center, both in NYC.
To read Susan’s full bio, click here.
While the care we offer at AYSF has its roots in biblical counseling, there are enough distinctives about our approach that we refer to our work as Christ-Centered Care.
To learn more about AYSF’s distinctive approach, we encourage you to check out the following articles:
“AYSF Asks: What’s Goin’ On??”
&
“AYSF Presents: The 5 Essentials of Flourishing”
AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions are not medical treatment and thus are not covered by insurance.
Why pay “out of pocket” for AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions?
(even if your medical insurance covers some kind of “therapy”)
Let’s be frank: counselors and therapists of all kinds abound, but truly effective care -that can help get you flourishing across the board in your life- is extremely rare. Sadly, many people report having had a disappointing therapy experience that just didn’t make much difference, or worse, caused more pain or confusion. When we look to God’s Word, we see that we need not be surprised.
Consider the following:
How much better to get wisdom than gold!
To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.
Prov 16:16
Where can wisdom be found?… No mortal comprehends its worth… Neither gold nor crystal can compare with it, nor can it be had for jewels of gold. Coral and jasper are not worthy of mention; the price of wisdom is beyond rubies… God understands the way to it, and he knows its place.
Job 28:12-28
First, we see that God says wisdom is extremely valuable: more so than gold and jewels! Why? Because wisdom is what enables a person to navigate every challenge of this life in ways that promote flourishing for ourselves and for others. (Click here to learn more about wisdom and the other essentials of flourishing that we help you cultivate at AYSF.)
Now, a key dimension of what makes anything valuable is its rarity. We’re talking basic economics: the higher the quality of a thing, the harder it is to come by, so the more valuable we consider it. By saying wisdom is extremely valuable, God is indicating that the real thing is not common. So in an ocean of options, it is not surprising that truly “wise counsel” is hard to find. This Scripture also reveals that true wisdom is from God. This means that theories and coping strategies that are not anchored in God’s Word and do not involve engaging with God in faith and dependency, are fool’s gold that will tarnish in your hands.
Those who provide Christ-Centered Care at AYSF are individuals who are trained in biblical counseling (as well as other care modalities) and have the spiritual gifts of wisdom and of teaching. What this means for you, is we are uniquely poised to help you grow truly wise so you are able to flourish like never before.
So, bottom line:
AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions are WORTH the Investment.
Now you have the opportunity to join the many AYSF clients who joyfully attest that the investment they have made in their comprehensive flourishing has been worth every penny. (Though not to worry: AYSF sessions will not actually cost you gold and rubies.)
Reach out to request your FREE initial consultation
to see if AYSF Christ-Centered Care is right for you.
What Makes AYSF Christ-Centered Care Uniquely Effective?
AT AYSF, we offer a non-clinical alternative to therapy for women who are tired of ineffective, unbiblical approaches to care. Drawing from the Word of God and guided by the Holy Spirit, we will uncover the narratives that have taken root in your heart that are out of alignment with God’s beautiful truth. We will get to the bottom of how those false narratives were introduced through the things you have experienced, how those narratives have been reinforced since, and how they have been adversely impacting your quality of life to this day. We will help you engage with God in such a way that you can experience his healing balm right where you need it in your heart and life.
With AYSF’s help, you will also learn how to take courageous responsibility for whatever God has actually called you to, and STOP running yourself into the ground trying to control what is not yours to control. We will help you discover the riches that are available to you as one who belongs to Jesus and teach you how to harness the power of the Word and the Spirit so you are able to prevail no matter what you have experienced, or what you encounter in the future.
AYSF is for women who are ready to do battle
with WHATEVER is holding them back.
Let’s Do This!
AYSF Christ-Centered Care Sessions are conducted live, online. Sessions are one hour each. We offer both daytime and evening options, availability permitting.
We will begin by meeting once a week. Once notable progress has been made on the issues that led you to seek support, we will reduce the cadence of our meeting to biweekly. Once you are able to say “I am flourishing,” we reduce our cadence to once a month.
When you’re ready, we can meet on an “as needed” basis. Essentially, this means the door is always open. You can simply reach out if there is a new challenge you are facing, a decision you would like to talk through, etc. At this point, you are welcome to schedule à la carte sessions without needing to commit to a long-term process again. Having this kind of “lifetime” access to support is one of the many distinctives that makes AYSF truly special.
AYSF Counseling is focused on women: we do not work with men or children in a counseling capacity. However, we warmly welcome men in our Training in Biblical Counseling and teenage girls in our courses!
We do offer relationship counseling for:
Great question! In reality, “biblical” counseling is what most Christians are actually seeking when they make a point to pursue Christian counseling. Unfortunately, it is common for people to discover that there is little or nothing distinctly Christian about what actually goes on in the counseling context when working with many counselors who identify themselves as Christian. Click below to learn more about what is distinctive about biblical counseling and why it matters.
Biblical counseling is not medical care and thus is not covered by insurance.
Why pay “out of pocket” for biblical counseling – for AYSF counseling, in particular- even if your medical insurance covers some kind of counseling?
Let’s be frank: counselors and therapists of all kinds abound, but truly effective counseling -that can help get you flourishing across the board in your life- is extremely rare. Sadly, many people report having had a disappointing counseling experience that just didn’t make much difference, or worse, caused more pain or confusion. When we look to God’s Word, we see that we need not be surprised. Consider the following:
How much better to get wisdom than gold!
To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.
Prov 16:16
Where can wisdom be found?… No mortal comprehends its worth… Neither gold nor crystal can compare with it, nor can it be had for jewels of gold. Coral and jasper are not worthy of mention; the price of wisdom is beyond rubies… God understands the way to it, and he knows its place.
Job 28:12-28
First, we see that God says wisdom is extremely valuable: more so than gold and jewels! But why is wisdom SO valuable? Because wisdom is what enables a person to navigate every challenge of this life in ways that promote flourishing for ourselves and for others. (Click here to learn more about wisdom and the other essentials of flourishing that we help you cultivate at AYSF.) Whether or not you are walking in wisdom impacts every decision you make in every facet of your life. There really is nothing like it when it comes to determining your quality of life.
Now, a key dimension of what makes anything valuable is its rarity. We’re talking basic economics: the more easily accessible something is, the less we value it; the higher the quality, the harder it is to come by, and thus the more valuable we consider it. By saying wisdom is extremely valuable, God is indicating that the real thing is not common. So in an ocean of options, it’s not surprising that truly wise counsel is hard to find. The Scripture above also reveals that wisdom is from God. This means that whatever tips, tricks and coping strategies we can come up that are not anchored in God’s Word and do not involve engaging with God directly in faith and dependency, is fool’s gold that will tarnish in your hands. Real gold, the wisdom of God, is the only thing that will enable you to navigate all of life’s challenges in ways that write redemptive endings to your life stories, no matter the beginnings.
The riches of wisdom are intended for all of the children of God. And yet, wisdom is also considered to be one of the “spiritual gifts.” That is to say, God grants certain individuals an exceptional degree of wisdom for the benefit of his children. AYSF counselors are not just qualified by the standards of this world: we are individuals with the spiritual gift of exceptional wisdom. We also have the spiritual gift of teaching. What this means is at AYSF, we don’t just hand you a fish: we are committed to teaching you how to fish, so that you grow truly wise and are able to make pro-flourishing choices and to lead others to do the same. So, bottom line:
Quality Biblical Counseling is WORTH the Investment.
Now you have the opportunity to join the many AYSF clients who joyfully attest that the investment they have made in their comprehensive flourishing has been worth every penny. Read for yourself the precious testimonies of how God has used AYSF to transform the lives of those who work with us…
Schedule Your Free Consultation.
Whether you are ready to start or have more questions:
We would love to talk with you.
Problem 1: One-Size-Fits-All Approach to Learning
We may listen to lots of sermons and Christian podcasts, attend a bible study, read Christian books and blogs and more, and still…not much changes in our lives. The thing is: these messages are designed for the masses. To cast a wide net, we speak in broad-strokes: lots of theory, lots of “should’s,” but little or no support in applying the truths we hear about to the details of our unique lives. There’s no guidance in our particular challenges, and no ongoing follow up to ensure we persevere on a new path. The one-size-fits-all approach isn’t working…
AYSF Solution: Custom-Tailored Care
AYSF Counseling is your opportunity to deeply address whatever is really going on with you. No more getting lost in a crowd. At AYSF, your care is customized according to what you need. Your challenges, desires, behaviors, priorities, feelings, and decisions. We help you connect the dots between the powerful truths in God’s Word and your real life. We help you chart your personalized course for change and walk with you every step of the way.
Problem 2: Un-biblical Counseling
See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.
Colossians 2:8
In our desperation, many Christians are turning to “the world” for solutions: self-help and secular therapy (whether practiced by unbelievers or by Christians). But this leads to greater confusion and distress as it reinforces self-reliance, misunderstandings about our identity, the use of coping strategies that do more harm than good, and the pursuit of our own misguided agendas, none of which can lead to flourishing…
AYSF Solution: Thoroughly Biblical Counseling
With God are wisdom and might; he has counsel and understanding.
Job 12:13; 22
AYSF counseling is anchored in Scripture (that is skillfully applied, not slapped on in trite ways!) We guide you – whether you are a newer or seasoned Christian – in mining the Bible’s bottomless treasures and making impactful application wherever it is needed. We help you to think biblically about every area of your life so that your choices are in alignment with God’s good design…which leads to greater flourishing in a way that the “wisdom of this world” never can.
Problem 3: “Counsel”- less Counseling
Many of us have tried counseling only to be left frustrated that we did most of the talking, regurgitating what we already knew about ourselves, while someone simply listened, nodded empathetically, and asked an occasional question. Should you dare to ask for input, you are likely met with an evasive “Well, what do you think?” But the emotional relief of just “venting” is momentary. What have you received that will actually change the way you live? Without insightful, actionable feedback, you go home to all your same problems…
AYSF Solution: Restoring “Counsel” to Counseling
Plans are established by wise guidance wage war.
Proverbs 20:18
At AYSF we do a lot of compassionate listening. You need to tell your story to heal, and we want to really see and know you. But at AYSF, that skillful listening facilitates robust dialogue. You will be offered truly helpful feedback, meaningful answers to questions you’ve been wrestling with, knowledge that, when applied, will lead to real change in your life. Because we know that contrary to the claims of secular theories, the truth is not hidden within each of us; it is in God and must be imparted to us. According to Scripture, a “counselor” is to be a person with wisdom from God who provides actionable guidance to another. At AYSF, we put “counsel” back in counseling, resulting in a uniquely satisfying and effective counseling experience.
Problem 4: Our Blindspots are Killing Us
We all bring into counseling the concerns that feel most pressing to us. But it is often what we can’t see in ourselves, what we are minimizing or hiding from ourselves or others, that is doing the most damage in our lives. In typical counseling, a counselor only addresses topics the counselee initiates. As a result, it is not uncommon for a person to be in counseling for years, addressing one or two issues, while they are knowingly or unknowingly self-destructing in other areas of their life. The result: our blind spots are killing us…
AYSF Solution: Total Life Alignment
We desperately need a context in which anything and everything can be brought safely into the light, which is the only way healing is possible. At AYSF, we welcome the topics that people often don’t know how to broach (out of fear, shame, and/or hopelessness.) Nothing is taboo here! Are you struggling in your parenting in ways that scare you? Is your sexual life healthy and satisfying or is something awry? Let’s talk about money: are you flourishing financially or is it a source of stress? What are you doing with food when no one is looking? Where have you been suffering in silence? At AYSF, we are all about whole-person care: heart, mind, soul, and body. We ask the hard questions –in a gentle way– to help get you into alignment with God’s glorious design across the board in your life, for His glory and your flourishing.
Problem 5: Lots of talk + not much action = not much change
Faith apart from works is useless.
James 2:20
Too often we talk about our problems in ways that lead nowhere. We experience a fleeting sense of relief from getting things off our chest, yet we continue to engage in the same patterns of behavior that cause us distress. We commiserate with fellow strugglers and settle for feeling “validated” in our feelings without being challenged and supported in consistently making better choices so that we can experience better results…
AYSF Solution: Reflect & Activate
At AYSF, we bring to bear the best of both counseling and coaching to move you beyond just talking about your problems. We help you identify and address the deep roots of unwanted behavior while also devising an actionable battle plan for how to prevail now. We encourage and guide you in taking notes during our sessions which results in the creation of a powerful resource you can continue to draw from for years to come. Reviewing your notes between sessions (“reflect”) will prepare you to perseveringly practice (“activate”) what you are learning where it really matters: your daily life. At AYSF, we are excited to:
– Help you troubleshoot obstacles so you can keep progressing and not get stuck.
– Provide accountability, because knowing someone is eager to hear about your progress from week to week helps you stay focused and committed to following through.
– Celebrate, celebrate, celebrate with you because rejoicing over every “baby step” of progress is essential to staying motivated as we continue to refine and grow.
When do we start?!
AYSF Counseling FAQ
Counseling sessions are conducted live, online. Sessions are one hour each. We will work to find a time that works in your schedule. We offer both daytime and evening sessions, availability permitting.
We will begin by meeting once a week. Once notable progress has been made on the issues that led you to pursue counseling, we will reduce the cadence of our meeting to biweekly. Once you are able to say “I am flourishing!“ we reduce our cadence to once a month. At this point, you are on a “wellness“ track and these monthly check-ins ensure that you are continuing to maintain and further the progress you’ve made. When you’re ready, we can then meet on an “as needed” basis. What this means is that the door is always open. You can simply reach out if there is a new challenge you are facing, a decision you would like to talk through, etc. At this stage, you are welcome to schedule à la carte sessions without needing to commit to a long-term process again. Having this kind of “lifetime” access to support is virtually unheard of in the counseling world and is one of the many distinctives that makes AYSF Counseling unique and effective.
Great question! In reality, “biblical” counseling is what most Christians are actually seeking when they make a point to pursue Christian counseling. Unfortunately, it is common for people to discover that there is little or nothing distinctly Christian about what actually goes on in the counseling context when working with many counselors who identify themselves as Christian. Click below to learn more about what is distinctive about biblical counseling and why it matters.
AYSF Counseling is focused on women: we do not work with men or children in a counseling capacity. However, we warmly welcome men in our Training in Biblical Counseling and teenage girls in our courses!
We do offer relationship counseling for:
Biblical counseling is not medical care and thus is not covered by insurance.
Why pay “out of pocket” for biblical counseling – for AYSF counseling, in particular- even if your medical insurance covers some kind of counseling?
Let’s be frank: counselors and therapists of all kinds abound, but truly effective counseling -that can help get you flourishing across the board in your life- is extremely rare. Sadly, many people report having had a disappointing counseling experience that just didn’t make much difference, or worse, caused more pain or confusion. When we look to God’s Word, we see that we need not be surprised. Consider the following:
How much better to get wisdom than gold!
To get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver.
Prov 16:16
Where can wisdom be found?… No mortal comprehends its worth… Neither gold nor crystal can compare with it, nor can it be had for jewels of gold. Coral and jasper are not worthy of mention; the price of wisdom is beyond rubies… God understands the way to it, and he knows its place.
Job 28:12-28
First, we see that God says wisdom is extremely valuable: more so than gold and jewels! But why is wisdom SO valuable? Because wisdom is what enables a person to navigate every challenge of this life in ways that promote flourishing for ourselves and for others. (Click here to learn more about wisdom and the other essentials of flourishing that we help you cultivate at AYSF.) Whether or not you are walking in wisdom impacts every decision you make in every facet of your life. There really is nothing like it when it comes to determining your quality of life.
Now, a key dimension of what makes anything valuable is its rarity. We’re talking basic economics: the more easily accessible something is, the less we value it; the higher the quality, the harder it is to come by, and thus the more valuable we consider it. By saying wisdom is extremely valuable, God is indicating that the real thing is not common. So in an ocean of options, it’s not surprising that truly wise counsel is hard to find. The Scripture above also reveals that wisdom is from God. This means that whatever tips, tricks and coping strategies we can come up that are not anchored in God’s Word and do not involve engaging with God directly in faith and dependency, is fool’s gold that will tarnish in your hands. Real gold, the wisdom of God, is the only thing that will enable you to navigate all of life’s challenges in ways that write redemptive endings to your life stories, no matter the beginnings.
The riches of wisdom are intended for all of the children of God. And yet, wisdom is also considered to be one of the “spiritual gifts.” That is to say, God grants certain individuals an exceptional degree of wisdom for the benefit of his children. AYSF counselors are not just qualified by the standards of this world: we are individuals with the spiritual gift of exceptional wisdom. We also have the spiritual gift of teaching. What this means is at AYSF, we don’t just hand you a fish: we are committed to teaching you how to fish, so that you grow truly wise and are able to make pro-flourishing choices and to lead others to do the same. So, bottom line:
Quality Biblical Counseling is WORTH the Investment.
Now you have the opportunity to join the many AYSF clients who joyfully attest that the investment they have made in their comprehensive flourishing has been worth every penny. Read for yourself the precious testimonies of how God has used AYSF to transform the lives of those who work with us…
Schedule Your Free Consultation.
True Stories of Transformed Lives
Rosa’s Testimonial
I am so thankful I was introduced to Susan at AYSF by a co-worker with whom I shared that I was feeling stressed and out of control. I was going through a stage of deep sadness and frustration. I thought that it was all caused by external circumstances but meeting with Susan has helped me to see that the pressure I was feeling was more about what was boiling up within me that I had been trying to suppress. Susan has helped me to explore the stories that I tell myself about my past, my relationships, and my options moving forward and hold them up to the truth of God. She has shown me how to identify and process my feelings in a God-honoring and soul-satisfying way. My life is so much more enjoyable and fulfilling because my understanding and expectations of myself, others, and God are no longer rooted in misunderstandings and lies.
Susan helped me to identify and pull up the roots of my feeling of shame, insecurity, anxiousness, and inadequacy. I am so much more aware and understanding of myself. It’s also helped me to change the dynamics in my dealings with others, especially at work. I am more confident now (even my boss has noticed!) This has resulted in me sharing more thoughts and ideas which have proven to be valuable to my colleagues and ultimately, to those we serve.
Counseling with Susan has been life-changing: I am not exaggerating. Finally getting to know myself through God’s eyes has been a gift of a lifetime. I have recommended her to my friends because I am so excited about the healing that I’m experiencing that I want them to have the same opportunity. I only wish I would have met Susan and started these sessions years ago!
Diana’s Testimonial
I came to AYSF – my first ever time in counseling – in desperation over my relationship with my parents. I thought Susan would be like other counselors I’d seen my friends go to and give me little strategies and affirm me in my feelings. Little did I know… Susan Kusmin is a wise counselor, a passionate cheerleader, and a precious mentor all rolled into one sweet package. Susan helped me see that what I had been experiencing was real and painful AND that there was another way. I am getting free of toxic shame, obedience rotting past its due date, and warped relational patterns that are not God’s design for his children. Working with Susan I began to feel hope, instead of fear, not only for my relationships with my family of origin but for the new family I have started with my husband.
Susan has led me through all sorts of sessions with patience, invaluable knowledge, and a fervent sturdiness set on God’s foundation. I have begun to emerge out of the pit I have dug for years when it comes to body image, perfectionism, painful severing of friendships, comparison of myself to others, desires for my career, and more. I am beginning to talk kindly to myself, to go to God and ask him to teach me how to see, think, and feel rightly, and to pray God will help me love the whole, incredible process.
Sometimes I monologue for a little while I cry and Susan listens. Sometimes I sit back and just listen, as though my own personal pastor has come to tell me – through metaphors, anecdotes, scripture, and sometimes passionate imploration – what the Lord has for me that day. She celebrates my battle wins with unabashed delight.
I was raised as a Christian and have “known God” all my life, but I have never known God as I do now. I often leave sessions with Susan overwhelmed with gratitude at what it means to truly get to know Him on this new level. I believe Susan was sent by God in order to speak His “good design” into my life in a fresh way, a way that is inciting real, meaningful change. I am closer to my God than I ever imagined and more committed to becoming who He wants me to be than ever before. Thank you, Susan!
Courtney’s Testimonial
I was raised in a family where we all believed in God, but we never truly had God as the focus of everything. He was just… out there. But then God was gracious enough to lead me to Susan. As a result of working with her, I now have confidence that God made me with purpose and desires for me to live to my full potential. He wants my life to be a life of flourishing, not just surviving.
I’ve learned that I can have healthy relationships with others while not harming myself in the process. Susan has taught me how to say a “good no” and say hard things with love. Before Susan, I would enable people in my life, thinking that was the right thing to do. I never realized the Lord intended better for me…for all of us. Knowing God as I do now has given me such peace that I’m no longer running myself into the ground trying to fix everything and everyone. I am experiencing much more happiness and am able to be present like never before.
I’ve been to counseling that was just felt… “clinical” and cold. But with Susan, it’s the opposite. Susan has a heart the size of the globe. When I meet with her, I can feel her compassion towards me and my journey. She is a safe place. She always grounds me in truth, but she has never judged or condemned me. She is always encouraging and has a special way of helping me see things in a way I never would have seen on my own. Some sessions have more tears than others. Some have more laughter. But I leave every one feeling heard, understood, & most importantly, loved by the Lord.
To anyone considering reaching out to Susan: just do it! I guarantee you will discover a safe place where you feel loved and able to talk about all the things you are currently carrying. You will gain insight to help you handle all these things and develop skills to make the journey so much better. Contacting Susan has been one of the best decisions I’ve made for myself. I have never felt so anchored and yet so free!
Deb’s Testimonial
I’ve been to three Christian marriage counselors and two secular counselors with no real change in either myself, my husband, or our marriage. I had been feeling stuck for many years and found myself resigned to just existing until the Lord takes me home. Though I had been following a daily Bible reading plan for 10 years, participating in bible studies and enjoying relationships with strong Christian women, I still didn’t really have a great relationship with the Lord (or with some other important people in my life.) A friend I respect encouraged me to reach out to Susan; it has been working with her that has made all the difference.
Susan is a truly gifted counselor, teacher, and coach who is in tune with the Holy Spirit and works for the Lord’s glory. In one of our first sessions, we looked at the story of Lazarus. “Jesus’ job was to do what He alone could: raise Lazarus from the dead,” Susan said, “but for Lazarus to ‘live alive’ he needed to remove his grave clothes (think a wrapped mummy) and Jesus instructed others to help him do so.” (John 11:43-44) Suddenly I understood: I had been dead in my sin and Jesus brought me to life. But I still had some burial clothes binding me. As I have continued to meet with Susan, the Holy Spirit has revealed more and more lies that have kept me bound and as I apply the truth of His Word, I am finally getting free of them.
The first major burial cloth to come off was the lie that I was worthless. I’ll never forget Susan saying, “You know Deb, you’ve used the word ‘invisible’ to describe yourself several times across sessions. I’m going to close my eyes now [and she did]. I can’t see you. Are you invisible?” “No…,” I said, timidly. “That’s right,” she continued. “Just because someone doesn’t see you doesn’t mean you’re invisible; it means something is going on with their eyes that they are unable to recognize the preciousness of the one right in front of them.” In that moment, the Holy Spirit moved in my heart and the tears began to flow. For the first time in my life I knew, really knew, I was seen, I was loved, and I was deeply known by God. Those powerful words and all the weeks following, have changed my life. Now I live as one who is valuable to the Lord.
Since I started working with Susan I have experienced the Lord going before me in relationships and making a way where there had been no way. Even my marriage of 49 years is changing! I am excited for what the Lord has for me and for us as a couple.
I have an exciting future!
Loriana’s Testimonial
I started meeting with Susan because I was oscillating between anxious, racing thoughts and feeling numb, like I was just going through the motions of my life. I was tired of scouring self-help books for solutions. I read my Bible, but it felt “flat” and not enough to overcome my overwhelming feelings (which then made me feel ashamed!)
Working with Susan, a Spirit-led, compassionate, profoundly discerning counselor, has made all the difference. Susan is funny and lively, intelligent and insightful, honest and inspiring. She has patiently helped me connect the dots between emotions and their origin and taught me practical skills to navigate my emotions in the light of God’s truth. Her ability to bring the Word of God to life is remarkable. Now God’s beautiful answers resonate for me.
Since I began meeting with Susan, I sleep better at night, my anxiety has decreased dramatically…it is so liberating! I feel balanced and grounded, fearless and trusting, fully equipped to follow God’s good plans for my life. Thank you, Susan, for being a faithful instrument in God’s hand!
Katie’s Testimonial
This time a year ago, I felt like I had been pushed off the edge. I was broken, depressed, not myself. I couldn’t speak about certain topics without crying. I met with a Christian counselor who was a wonderful listener but there was no depth – no feedback – she barely spoke. Then a friend told me about Susan. Susan listened… and gave real counsel – truths to hold onto, steps to heal, to move forward. Susan is a beautiful mix of a bible teacher and a counselor. She is gentle and caring while being passionate and courageous to tell you what you need to hear. She challenges me and turns me back to God’s truth. She has been a lifeline, an answer to prayer.
There have been many light bulb moments while working with Susan. She has a great way of wording things so I remember them and use them throughout my day. “False peace is no peace,” “Stop stroking the cactus,” “God is your Ace; give Him the trumping power,” “Hand people back their plates,” “It’s a matter of loving people better, not less,” are just a few of the phrases that have “stuck” and keep me grounded in the biblical truths from which they originate. I have learned to process shame and get rid of false guilt. I can better see what is a matter of “life” and what is a matter of “death” and I am choosing life more and more often.
So many times in my life I have felt backed into a corner. Susan has shown me there are no corners in Christ. I am free! I really do have options about how I feel, the beliefs that drive me, and the choices I make. This has been life changing!
Jess’ Testimonial
It took me 38 years to finally take the leap and go into counseling. Now I can honestly say: counseling with Susan is one of the best decisions I have made in my life. It has challenged me, shown me love in ways I’ve never experienced, and reframed the way I view myself and my relationship with God. Working with Susan has provided greater freedom in all areas of my life. Freedom in knowing who I am (a daughter of the King!), in how I relate to people, in how I view my body and my relationship with food, freedom to explore the desires God has put on my heart. I have learned how to more confidently make decisions and walk in His purpose for my life. I know God more from working with Susan and am discovering what it really means to find my delight in Him.
I wanted to work with a Christian counselor so I could be open about my faith, but didn’t really know how biblical counseling would differ in practice from working with a non-Christian, or with a Christian practicing secular psychology. I can now say: truly biblical counseling makes all the difference. Biblical counseling isn’t just about alleviating symptoms; it’s about becoming more like Christ. Susan and I dive into the root of sin and give a name to it. We expose worldly views that have gotten a foothold and trade them in for God’s truths. We turn to God for answers. For example: “success” has been a big motivator for me. We broke that down by identifying how God defines success and its relationship to biblical love. That has been a game-changer.
Susan’s ability to incorporate counseling, coaching, and teaching seamlessly is the perfect balance for me. While there are key areas of growth we stay focused on, there is flexibility each week to tackle what is on my mind/happening in my life. We work on practical skills and strategies when needed and often tie them back to larger areas we are working on. Susan’s approach is so wholistic: we are always addressing the mind, body, heart, and soul in our sessions. As a result, I have seen so much progress across the board in my life.
Latisha’s Testimonial
The pain of fractured family relationships spurred me to seek counseling. After years of thinking I’d “pray it through and figure it out” I finally concluded I needed help. As a pastor’s wife and church leader myself, the confidentiality of working with someone outside my usual circles was important. I knew online sessions would be ideal with my schedule. But most importantly, I wanted to work with someone whose counsel I could trust to be in alignment with God’s principles. Susan has ticked every box. Indeed, Susan’s unswerving commitment to the Lord Jesus Christ as her true north has blessed me far beyond my expectations.
Susan strikes a comforting balance of being able to address hard issues with both truth and grace. Regardless of what concerns I bring to a session I’m always confident that she will kindly but purposefully direct me to the source of true hope and freedom in a way that doesn’t minimize my pain. She is always ready to see the humor in a situation: I can’t think of a session that hasn’t included some welcome laughter. I always feel she is fully vested in equipping me to walk in victory as I grow in making the lordship of Christ a reality in my life. And she has helped me find greater joy in the journey.
As a result of meeting with Susan, I’m operating out of a more positive outlook and feeling more empowered. I am able to maintain my peace when faced with situations that used to unsettle me. I’m making progress in being more empathetic and skillful in how I interact with difficult family members. I also have greater clarity about what is mine to “own” and I am motivated and equipped to change.
To anyone who is considering counseling with Susan I would say, “Just give it a try – you won’t be sorry!” You are sure to see your situation from a new (and higher) perspective. You will recover your hope and the courage to keep walking toward greater wholeness.
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